Day 81: Exalting Oneself Is Dangerous

Day 81: Exalting Oneself Is Dangerous

Scripture Reading: Proverbs 25:1–7

Key Verse:

“Do not put yourself forward in the king’s presence or stand in the place of the great, for it is better to be told, ‘Come up here,’ than to be put lower in the presence of a noble.” — Proverbs 25:6-7 (ESV)

Reflection

Pride is subtle, but its consequences can be devastating. Solomon warns against self-exaltation, reminding us that true honor comes from humility, not self-promotion. Leaders who try to force their way into positions of influence often find themselves embarrassed and demoted, while those who wait on the Lord’s timing receive recognition at the right time.

Pride leads to humiliation (vv. 6-7). Solomon gives a simple but powerful example: don’t seat yourself at the head of the table or take a place of honor before you’ve been invited. It’s far better to be called up than to be asked to step down. Wise leaders let their character and actions speak for themselves rather than demanding recognition.

God raises up the humble (v. 7). Jesus echoed this wisdom in Luke 14:10, teaching that “everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.” The world tells us to promote ourselves, network aggressively, and push our way to the top, but God honors those who lead with humility, serve faithfully, and trust His timing.

True leadership is about service, not status. Many people desire power and prestige, but great leaders don’t seek titles—they seek to serve. When leadership becomes about position rather than purpose, it leads to pride, entitlement, and failure. The best leaders put others first and let their faithfulness be what elevates them.

This passage reminds us that humility is not about thinking less of ourselves, but about trusting God to lift us up in the right time and place. Those who chase after greatness will often lose it, but those who honor God with humility will be honored in return.

Word Study: Exalt (רוּם, rum)

The Hebrew word rum means “to lift up, raise, or elevate.” It can refer to physical elevation or an increase in status, power, or prominence.

For leaders, rum is a reminder that self-exaltation is dangerous, but when God exalts a person, it is secure, lasting, and for His glory.

Challenge

Reflect on your approach to leadership and influence.

1. Are you seeking recognition, or are you serving faithfully and trusting God with the results?

2. Are you leading with humility, or are you trying to push your way into positions of prominence?

Write down one way you can practice humility and servant leadership this week, whether in your workplace, church, or personal relationships.

Leadership in Action

Consider how humility and self-exaltation impact leadership.

• Are you seeking opportunities to serve, or are you more focused on being recognized?

• How can you foster a leadership culture that values service over status?

Identify one leadership situation where you need to step back, trust God’s timing, and let your work speak for itself. Take action this week to lead with humility, allowing God to elevate you in His perfect time.

Prayer

Lord, keep my heart free from pride and the desire for self-exaltation. Teach me to trust in Your timing and to lead with humility, serving others rather than seeking status. Help me to walk in faithfulness, knowing that when I honor You, You will position me exactly where I need to be. May my leadership reflect Your wisdom, grace, and humility. Amen.